Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Ppl says to me just be ur self to change ur life to better?

the question is how to be MY SELF???? i mean i know that just act normal but HOW





i really need ur help GUys



good answer=full rating



silly stupid non sense= abuse!Ppl says to me just be ur self to change ur life to better?
It's hard b/c everywhere you turn we are told what to be...be this fashionable jacket, be this expensive purse/perfume, be this haircut...nobody is saying, be this type of person...someone who is caring, kind, considerate...fun, goofy, smart...We simply lack any guidence of what it means to become ourselves...develop our characters.



My advise...being yourself is liking yourself...what you like to do, the things that matter to you, what you want out of life...don't waver from these when distracted by others. You have to live your life..in other words, regardless of your family and friends, you are the one who has to live with your choices. Go after what you want...don't expect people to give it to you. Deliberate change takes a lot of effort. Remember, in one year, regardless of the choices you make, time will have passed. What can you show for that year? A whole lot...or nothing. It takes work to find out who you are...it isn't automatic. It may be easier for some people (people you see on TV who seem to have it all), but for ';normal'; people, it's years of learning and experiencing...Ppl says to me just be ur self to change ur life to better?
high school right? im a fresh in college i member these things well. stay close to ur friends dont try to make 1000 cuz trust me u rather have 10 close ones. i answered ur other question too kid
When you are young you have to figure out who you are. Sometimes people pretend to get along, like pretending to like a song you really don't because everyone else does. What you have to remember is that there are really cool things about you that make you unique and interesting. You just have to relax and let those things show and people will like the interesting and quirky you! If you are ';acting normal'; then you aren't being yourself. Give it time and you will figure out who you are and then you won't be self conscious about how you act.

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