I need a change in my life, something new, what can I do?

I feel trapped in the lonely repetition of every day. I don't like my friends, and I don't bother with them that much, I endure, and tolerate them.

But it feels like I'm being crushed under the weight of homework and assignments and I'm fed up with how repetetive, dull, lonely, boring it has all become. Of the tiniest things! Of my own home, of where I live... Of school. Especially school. Even the shops I see everyday. It's like what I used to feel for it all has been sucked dry. It's not just that, it's my life in general. It's way too much of the same thing, over, and over. I need something new, something vibrantly life changing.

What can I do? My mom cant afford a holiday. There's no place to go from here. I mean, I applied for a job but they haven't called yet or anything... I lack inspiration for it all... I'm not depressed, I don't have a mental illness, I'm just so BORED with it because I have been doing the same thing for YEARS.

Can you suggest anything? What can I do?I need a change in my life, something new, what can I do?
hi, here's what you do: Instead of waiting for the job to call you, why not go there and ask again and act like your happy maybe.? Holidays dont fix bordom...you gotta tell yourself that we're all bored until we get interested in something we do. I bet your mom is bored. Go see a doctor.



Edit: Yo its summer and we're all bored. thats why I'm banging on this keyboard, lol. You wanna get away probably to someplace like here, and I'd like to get away to where you are...funny! you need to enter a photog contest or something. Take some pictures and send them to a contest. Or writing contest maybe.I need a change in my life, something new, what can I do?
I went through something rather like this for about a year and a half once. I think what you need is to find your passion. There is so much to do in life- if you're so bored, you just need to discover something that you will love. (By love, I don't mean go find a boyfriend- you need to be complete without a boyfriend.)



I found a spiritual passion, learning about the Bible, and understanding why things are so bad, why God allows suffering, what he will do to fix it and what the future holds. I also shared it with others, and started spending a lot of time teaching people the Bible. Now, this may not be your kind of thing, but the idea is to find both an activity and a set of friends.



Your activity needs to be something that you love to do! Delve into the arts- writing, music, painting, drawing, whatever. About 8 months ago, I started belly dancing, and I fell in love with it. Try something new- join some kind of class or club or group, expose yourself to new ideas, new people, new activities. Find friends that you actually like, people who you can connect with and have something in common with. If you can only tolerate the friends you have now, they're not really you're friends- a friend should be someone who you enjoy talking to and spending time with.



One thing that is very satisfying is helping others. Volunteer for something that helps people! Find positive ways to pass the time. If you are an intellectual, pick a subject to study in depth, such as a time period or a language. Whatever you do, the important thing is to change it up- add some spice to your life, and keep searching until you find your passion.
I'm undergoing a repetitive student's life as well but i'm enjoying it. Things won't be changed by you except you change the way you see things around you.

'; What on Earth are you here for? '; Have you ever ask youself this question? What is the purpose of God for putting you in that position.

Perhaps there is something you should learn to be more patient and see things from different perspectives. You cannot run away everytime situations do not suit you.

Get '; Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren'; and find the purpose of your life that God'd for you. Cheers.^^