That is the trick isn't it. How do you succeed when you're told you won't? Look the fact is you know what is right and what is wrong. You know what is good and what is bad. And being the best you can be is the best you can do. I'm 52 years old and I've done well, and it is only because I took the time to consider what I wanted and how best to get it with what was available to me.
As far as feeling loved goes sometimes we are loved and we don't know it. I think that is because of our interpretation of what love is. What is being loved to me is different from what it would be to you. Much like rainbows. Because of the nature of a rainbow unless you can see my rainbow through my eyes, it is impossible to see the same rainbow that I see. Rainbows and love are wonderful things but they are different from one person to the next.
If your parents take care of your needs, supply food for you, say hi occasionally, or good night occasionally, that is proof that they love you. It may not seem enough, or the kind of love that you want, but it is their version. So unless they have told you that they don't love you, you must assume that they do and simply don't know how to show you. Be patient, do your best, and surprise them with what you have. And love them in your way. Maybe they will learn from you.Plz help anyone about how change life or help someone despertly?
first off im going to say ur mm and ur dad do love u they may not act it but they do ur not not a failure or a looser. and we all have at one time or an other have thought our mom and dad hated us.try this get ur teacher ur mom and ur dad to sit down and tell them (with the help of ur teacher) how u feel and DON'T LET THE LIES OF OTHERS GET TO U! just because everyone else thinks u r a failure does not mean u have to act like one so next time some trys to say u can't laugh and walk away it pisses them off badly x] and then go do it or at least try . u might be surprised at what ur good at or what u might learn. in the end never say never:)
Hello!
It is obvious from your msg that you are extremely troubled with the way things are going on with your life. You feel very unloved and uncared for and feel like you are a failure in life. this thought also seems to be taking over your life completely and you are unable to go on with your life smoothly.
First of all let me assure you that there are people who can understand you and what you are going through.People who can help you find the strength within you to be able to cope and tide over difficult situations. there might not be an overnite solution to your problems but there are concerned people who will work with you and be there for you and offer whatever emotional support you may need.
I happen to be a volunteer for one such organization called SNEHA - Chennai.
I would urge you to visit this site: www.snehaindia.org
You can call us 044 24640050 or 044 24640060. Alternatively you can email us at help@snehaindia.org.
This is not a professional or commercial organization but really a centre manned by people who genuinely care and want to offer their complete, non-judgemental, emotional support to people who are troubled in some way.Further whatever you discuss with the volunteer at sneha will remain in complete confidence between the two and their services are absolutely free.
Please do enlist their support at any time of day or night.
If you feel the need to keep in communication with me personally please feel free to email me at any time.
Hope things get better for you.Take care.
Anitha
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