Monday, November 22, 2010

How can I change my life?

I feel depressed. I honestly don't have a best friend. I dont do anything on the weekends with anyone. I ask people to hang out and no one replies to my messages on Myspace. I'm on the internet most of the day. I'm a senior in high school. I just feel really really sad. I feel like I should be having the time of my life and I just feel like a really big loser.

How can I change my life?How can I change my life?
The reality is, most people don't actually have the time of their lives that they are supposed to their senior year, so don't feel too out of the loop. Second, how about joining a club at your school, or a non-profit that specializes in something you are interested in so you can automatically have something in common with the people you meet, and then things will just fall into place. Don't feel too bad, high school is hard, but it will all be over soon, don't forget. It is hard for everyone. How can I change my life?
Get up on a positive note and who cares what other people think of you.



You are a person that has feelings and you shouldn't care what people say or think of you





Good-luck and I've been there
I feel the same.. I'm only a sophomore but still. if your friends aren't replying to you.. maybe they aren't real friends? and depression sometimes can be helped with meds.. but most of the time it isn't the answer. Find something that interests you and get into it, if its art or music, or whatever. Try to socialize a little.. easier said than done allot of the time. But everything will be ok, at least your a senior, soon you'll go to college and you'll start a whole nother life



good luck :)
You join after school activities. That would help you make friends. I am sorry you are depressed. Maybe you should try asking people to thier face if they want to do something on the weekends. Do not be afraid of rejection, it is a part of life. You will be ok!
ya i no what u mean. but you have to just pout urself out there join somthing or find something u love and do it. also try to meet new people!!
Get over it,You dont have it as bad as I do, no one does
april,I'm so sorry,Hon. I'd offer you a seat if I had one. I think you just need to get out and socialize more. Become that social butterfly you've heard about. You are a senior in high school? This is about the time you've made a splash in society. Get yourself involved. What are some of your favorite hobbies? What are your interests? Now,I don't believe that. No best friend at all? Well,Then,Allow me to introduce myself. My name is David and it's an honor and a pleasure to make your acquaintance. If I were to meet you in person,I'd probably bow before you and offer to kiss your hand. I'm feel that I am just a gentleman at heart. Hon,You are not a loser and you shouldn't feel that way about yourself. You want me to let you in on a secret? You've had a friend here all the time,He just hadn't found you in a while. I'm sorry I haven't met you before. If ever you feel like you need someone to talk to. I want you to come to me,Alright? april,I know how this feels. I've felt this way most of my life. But I've done something about it and now I feel that I am blessed with the most friends a guy could ever ask for. I'd like you to be my friend too. I would be so honored to be your friend. april,I am feeling quite sleepy. You have a goodnight and God bless. Bye for now.
I read this a few times before I felt I should make an attempt to answer you, because I want to be as honest as I can. First of all, stop living your life on line. Get off your computer and ask people in person. Talk to the kids in school at school and make plans at school. If you still don't get a response then join a club. Join something where there will be young adults your age where you can make friends. What are your interests? Find something in your community that you can do and there you will meet people your own age with things you will already have in common. You are right when you say you should be having the time of your life, but you can't be when you are sitting behind the computer. I don't know where you live or what your situation is, but if you have a car and can take yourself places then do it. Just go someplace. Even if its for short periods of time. Join the Y. They give great student discounts and there are a ton of kids your age there that are just waiting to meet you. Join a church youth group. Also remember there is life after high school honey. High school is just a warehouse really. College is where you can bloom and really be who you are meant to be.

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