How can I change my life around and How can I become a better person?

I Really want to change my life. I need to know what your opinions are to do so.

The things I want to do are

1. Become less lazy.

2. Have a daily routine.

3. Become a little popular.

4. have more self confidence.

5. Act a Little more of my age.



So please help me so i know what i can do. Every answer helps.How can I change my life around and How can I become a better person?
All you really need is confidence. :)



1. Go for a walk now and then, and go out as often as you can with your friends

2. Write down on a piece of paper what you want to do in the day, and follow it.

3. Don't be to talk to people you don't really know

4. Like number three, don't be afraid to talk to people

5. Maturity comes naturally, don't worry about it.



Hope I helped :)

Just try and force yourself to be confident, and most importantly smilee as often as you can!



Answer mine please?

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1. become more active.(a hobby or something)

2. Get organized. It is the key to a less chaotic life. Routines are always good. You know what is expected of you to do next. Things can get done much faster and not be pushed aside to do later if you follow thru and simply finish everything you started.

3. Gain a couple of friends. (I'd choose ones with positive attitudes who can also motivate you to where you're trying to be by looking at their accomplishments)

4. Its all in how you carry yourself. A new look(but still you) can change your WHOLE attitude in how you feel about yourself. The way you dress, walking with good posture, etc. boosts your self esteem and have people look at you differently as confident person.

5. Make sure the crowd you hang out with are mature as well because it will defeat the person of you trying to become mature when they themselves are not acting up to par as adults. Gain new responsibility and follow thru with that and you will start to feel more mature.



IDK, this is my opinion. Hope it helps. :)
10 little things you can do:

1. Write down everything you want to do that day in a planner; start out simple and flexible though or you may experience a rebound effect.

2. Don't procrastinate; do your chosen tasks immediately and try to think about them as something you want to do or something that will be beneficial to you.

3. Smile. Try to sincerely smile (make sure those eyes crinkle) at people you see and you'll attract more people to you; if you give them a sincere smile they will subconsciously think that you're a nice and pleasant person.

4. Laugh more; laughing helps relieve stress and if you're happy, other people will want to be around you.

5. Don't act a certain way just to be popular; true confidence comes from keeping a standard for yourself (a set of values) and sticking to them.

6. Stand up straight and keep your head up. People will notice you more if you look confident.

7. Maintain some eye contact; if your shy like me this could be hard at first, but if you continue doing this, soon you'll feel less intimidated by it and people will feel like your really listening to them and who doesn't like being heard?

8. Be polite; if someone is rude to you, act like it doesn't bother you and never retaliate. If you don't retaliate not only will you look more mature, but other people will respect you more. Besides, most bullies just want attention and if you give them negative attention, they will continue to bully you.

9. Take a walk in someone else's shoes; try to acertain why they feel or behave a certain way.

10. For the last one, just make sure you do what you say your going to do, be honest, and make sure you take care of your responsibilities by keeping a planner or something.