People say if you really want to change your life you can, but how?

I'm not happy with my life I kinda don't want it to go on. I'm not suicidal, but I don't know how to make the changes required. I just know the aspirations that I once had did not become reality.People say if you really want to change your life you can, but how?
We all need something new, a dream, a goal in order to be excited about life. It sounds like maybe? you have that dream, but aren't sure how to get to it?



If not, do some thinking so you can point yourself in the direction you want to go.



If you know where you want to go, remember what Jon Cabat-Zinn once said, ';It's simple, but not easy.';



Then it becomes a matter of walking every day in the direction of your dream. Even one act every day to take you toward your goal will keep your momentum going and will eventually get you to some results. Teaching yourself to do a little each day is good discipline and will ';feed'; itself. Soon, you will find yourself doing more and more. The only magic here is in your perserverence. Start moving in the direction of your dreams!



Attached is a link to an article about how MC Hammer can help you reach goals. I wrote it for mentors, but think it applies to all of us. Good luck and keep moving!People say if you really want to change your life you can, but how?
you can always take into consideration the cutting of your hair, as our father did.

though going emo on your hair isnt the best solution.



why dont you try doing the opposite of the things you dont like.. or the things u just do in general...

You could also try moving to a different city.. or traveling the world :)



and then you can go to the beach and.. BUILD SAND CASTLES!!! WOOOOOO!!
You can't.



It's just a hopeful society is far better society (and consumes more stuff and spends more money) than a hopeless one.

We don't have the american dream in britain..and there is significant pressure for us all ';to know our place';. Our prince is even actually against an aspirational society
whats really stopping you?

your life is yours to create
Visual what you want your life to be like. Then figure out what you can do now to start taking steps to get there. If you want a certain career, start the education or training. If you want to live a certain place, find out what it would take to get there, places to live, jobs, etc. Once you start making a move to your goal, you will feel invigorated and able to take even more steps. Just realize that if you don't end up exactly where you planned, at least you will get closer. The key is to look at where you end up versus where you started and how much you have done, rather than how far you are from your goal, which can be depressing. Start with little, simple things, then when you get those done, start with the bigger ones.
start with reading books like ';life strategies'; by dr. phillip mcGraw

and ';the seven spiritual laws of success'; by deepak choprah. you have to start making different types of decisions in your life and really think things through. believe an expert in this area..it CAN happen if you really want it to. I've done it with odds stacked against me but I was determined to change things entirely around. good luck.
its mind over matter, maybe you can start with finding a religion, if you have one then maybe you should start looking a little into the religion you have chosen.


You are unhappy in your current situation, and want change. This is the first step, accept the problem and confront it head on. The second step is to decide what to change, and then how to go about making the adjustments.



Also what are your thought patterns? aer you thinking negatively all the time? Think about what you are thinking about, become aware of your thoughts. Talk to yourself, change your internal thoughts, think positively.



If you are unhappy with your current situation, put it behind you. Move on. Decide what is a realistic goal. What do you really enjoy? Do what makes you happy. Stay away from whatever or perhaps whoever it is that brings you down.