How can I change my life around?

I want to stop being fat and lazy, always disrespected, and actually make a change no one can possibly imagine a 17 year old high school senior doing.How can I change my life around?
There are lots of things to help get you active on a physical, intellectual and spiritual level. I think that you need to do all three in moderation in order to feel fulfilled. In order to do this you can try:



SPIRITUAL

- Praying

- Reading Quran

- Attending Islamic classes / lectures



INTELLECTUAL

- Applying yourself in school

- Decide what you want to do when you graduate high school and apply yourself to that



PHYSICAL

- Playing a regular sport and joining a sporting team

- Joining a gym



To be honest, there's no immediate solution to your problem you just need to start being more active in your life rather than just waiting for a solution to come your way.How can I change my life around?
BE DETERMINED TO MAKE THAT CHANGE. NEVER GIVE UP AND SET GOALS BEYOND YOUR EXPECTATIONS.
try doing the opposite of whatever you usually do that has defined you as a person and go with it...don't know if you got that?
lol im a 17 yr old high school junior and i am what i am as long as im a good person and i leave a positive legacy..what kind of legacy do u want to leave?
Try excersizing. You're already fat and lazy so it might be a little hard, but if you're determined, then you should try. If you are not smart, try getting good grades.
get up and get a job and stay in school. go to collage.
dont leave islam no matter what . if u pray nd obay allah u r always safe nd a cool person its just sometimes people have bad day and good day pppl sometimes happy nd sad this is life u gotta take it as it is
dont lose your virginity(:

mm...

get off ur lazy bum and exercise.

dontate.

community service(:

model;)
Be a good Muslim.
So I will help you step by step

1. Stop being so fat and lazy. To do this no chips, no popcorn or whatever else you eat that is bad. Try having a sandwich with meat and veggies. Then work out. Choose a sport or do weight lifting.



2. To become respected. Act mature and proper. Try and make people look up at you instead of down. Become a good leader. You will not earn respect by teasing people. People will look at you as a loser with no life.



3. Well you can try intelligence. This can correspond with number one. Try to get off video games (If you play them) and stay off chat systems unless for advice. MSN is fine. While you are on MSN read a book if nobody is talking to you. Plan out your nights. Make time for hanging out with your buddies and working on homework and such. Remember you will need friends to back you up in life.





I hope you can take something out of this :D
Become more disciplined
first of all u gotta learn to ignore ppl and what they say or think abt u

i noticed ur nt very gud at that...u c how u answered the first answerer to ths question



just ignore them, thats what u do wiht stupid, idiots and ignorant ppl

leanr to ignore ignorants



and pray alot to Allah swt, and he'll help u thru



for losing weight: excercise daily and cut down on fats and junk, change ur diet

and the exercise will help u out on being more active, rather than being lazy



try concentrating in ur classes and sch work more

do u sch work, but dont ever forget Islam



gdluck, temme how it goes



edit: who said anything abt ignoring ur prblems?

just ignore thee ppl and wha they think of u

cuz the more u take them on and think abt whatever they think of u, thats more negative, not gud u c
Iman %26amp; Takwa
Sounds like you don';t like your self. It maybe because you get picked on a lot by other people or members of your family. Find something you really enjoy doing. Eat smaller meals. When you get upset take a walk around the block. instead of eating something. Don't let people get you down always remember hurting people always hurt other people. Hold your head up you can do it.
The Only way to change your life around, is to see your life through different eyes. To look at things in a different way, to see what you did not notice or understand before.



Surround yourself with different people, take an interest in something different. Take time out to reflect - long walks - camping.

Read things differently.



Read John Taylor Gatto on what makes a person
you did say forget about them
alright well start excercisin at home or join a gym or sumthin, if yu get bored juss listen ta some music while excercisin,, if you get disrespected then confront them, or just ignore them..you have ta make a promise to yourself and actually do it...juss pray before you sleep that things will get better for you, tc nd gdluck =)
';...with God all things are possible.'; ~Jesus



Start small. Have faith in God and believe that He can and will help you.



Then work on improving your diet...and then add in a little bit of exercise (like going on walks.)



And no one is going to respect you if you do not respect yourself.
Salaam. First off, I'm guessing u want to be one of those though guys judging by your name. If that's the case, u need to give that up. If u want I can explain that more later. Second, I'm 16, and just like u was fat and lazy with no friends. At about seventh grade I changed my life around. You say your fat, that's not a big issue. U can easily lose weight just find a sport u like, I picked up basketball and running, and stick to it. It'll be fun and you'll lose weight in the process. U dont have to be good, just need to work hard. Second u say ur lazy. Lazy at what? School, exercising, or just everything in general? Sports will help u with that too. If u get over ur laziness, ppl will start to respect u more. I changed drastically, so u can too. My family even once told me they could have never imagined me the way I am now. I can tell u alot more if u like, just ask or email me. I'd be more than glad to help bc I know that I changed and I'd feel horrible if I couldn't help out someone with similar problems do the same.
Say Bismillah

Allah is with you Inshallah
Planning might take some time but it really helps is totally worth it;



Do this;

1. think where you want to be in 10 years, write it down.

2. think where you have to be in 5 years in order to be able to achieve number 1, write it down

3. think where you have to be in 1 year in order to be able to achieve number 2, write it down.

4.think where you have to be in 6 months in order to be able to achieve number 3, write it down.

5. think where you have to be in 1 month in order to be able to achieve number 4, write it down.

6. think where you have to be in 1 weak in order to be able to achieve number 5, write it down.

7. think where you have to be tomorrow in order to be able to achieve number 6, write it down......... and DO IT!



You have to program your day; from the beginning to end. THEN STICK TO IT!



Everyone wonders how others do it; the main thing is HARD WORK.
we cant change you, you are the only one who can do that, get up and do something
quit relying on Allah.
You could join the military. It would give you discipline, and people respect enlisted men and women.
try leaving islam %26amp; reading the Holy Bible. that might work.