How to change my life?

Ok, so what do you when everything is going wrong in your life, you're really miserable,and you've realised that you've got to do something about it very soon? How do you go about it? I've stepped back and evaluated my life, sort of, but i'm still very confused about the next step. I want to change, but i just don't think things can ever be good again. Help! Becuase where I am know in my life and where I want to be, there is a fuzzy hedge miles wide. Waht goes in the middle???How to change my life?
live for Jesus!!! have a personal relationship with him by praying to him and asking him questions. He always answers prayer...maybe not in the the way you want it to happen but he does!!! start going to a bible fellowship church...the congregations there are very accepting...this is no Cult! He died for you so you can go to heaven!How to change my life?
one thing at a time.
Take a chance... step into a Church 2morrow... not just any a powerful one.. Watch God move in your life. What do you have to loose?





What city are you in?
I know it sounds kinda sad, but smiling does help. I think it's some kinda psychological thing. Trying to put yourself in a better mood doesn't always work, so try telling yourself that you ARE fine, and that life IS good, and your outlook will change pretty instantly.
make a list ....of things you would like to change....those things YOU CAN change....then do it....looking outside your self centeredness to the needs of others is one way to gain some insight towards effective change and a more positive outlook.....
You have hit the nail right on the head when you stated ';I just don't THINK things can ever be good again';.





Change your thinking and change your life.





One cannot expect positive changes in our lives if we are always thinking negative thoughts. That doesn't even make sense.





I suggest you start by writing down what your dream is. Write down as many thoughts as you can. Then cross out, one by one, the ones that are not that important. When you have got THE ONE left, start thinking in that direction. Always aim at a dream, thinking positive thoughts, knowing that you will reach it AND YOU WILL.





Please stop thinking ';I just don't think that things can ever be good again'; because if you continue to think that way, guess what ';things will never be good again.';





Peace and Love
First, start thinking positively. The is the most important thing you have to do. You can make a list of goals and thing you want to reach in your life. See what you have and what you want to have and start striving for it. You can make a calendar and to check every day which is good or there's something good happened during it. Step by step you will see everything goes better and better. And the best you can do is to live for Jesus! Have a personal relationship with Him by praying and asking him questions. He always answers the prayers.
Watch the ';Secret'; and it will tell you how to make a vision board. Go to Barnes and Noble and look at all the books and gravitate to what you are attracted to and what makes you feel joy. Everyone is a genius in some way, find your genius..
First things first. It's a fact that anything you spend a solid hour a day doing, you'll get pretty good at. Pick a bad habit you have (watching too much TV is a common one) and spend an hour a day doing SOMETHING related to where you want to go with your life.





What I'd suggest as a good starting place is to change who you are inside. Meditate, learn self hypnosis, learn astral projection and lucid dreaming. Turn your brain from an enemy into your best friend. There's a million ways to do it, and they are all worth it.





The main thing is to know that how you react to the world is as important as what the world throws at you.





HOW TO WIN FRIENDS %26amp; INFLUENCE PEOPLE was an old self help book that's been around since the 1950s. Dealing with people is just like any other skill. There are rules, you can learn them and ';play the game'; to win. It'll tell you the RIGHT way to get people to listen to you.





THE POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING by Norman Vincent Peale. It's a classic on how to stop worrying about things and start really living. Any library will have copies. It's more Christian than Ned Flanders, but don't let that put you off right away, give it a chance. It's about how what WE CHOSE TO THINK ABOUT is more important than what happens to us. Having the right attitude makes all the difference.





Diaries are good. Every day be sure to write down 5 things that went RIGHT, that you're grateful for. That keeps your mind focused on what is good in your life each day. That's important.





Speaking of diaries, I have some ';homework'; for you. Try this. Remember the cursed diary in HARRY POTTER AND THE CHAMBER OF SECRETS? Write a cursed diary. Think of a negative thought or bad memory you want to get rid of. Feel it like a dark sludge stuck in your head you want to get rid of.





Feel the sludge ooze out of your head, down your arm, and out your hand as you write about the memory onto a piece of paper. Write the memory or thought until you feel the sludge has poured out of your body into the paper. The paper holds that evil thought now.





Take the paper holding that thought and destroy it. Tear it up, burn it, scatter the ashes to the wind. That evil thought is now gone from your mind and your life.





Trust me, it works.
First, get to the roots which make your life miserable. Do some analyzing... ';What did I fail to do?'; or ';Did I made a right decision?'; ...





You can't just change your life in just one snap. Damages have been done... but you can still do something about that. Try making up for the things you had failed to do.





And lastly, have you heard the LAW OF ATTRACTION?


*If you always think about negative things, you'll automatically attract negative things.


* If you always think positive, then you'll only attract POSITIVE THINGS. ;-)





Take it from me, it's proven. ;-)





And always have faith in God. Everything has a purpose. ;-)
Uh, since you haven't given ANY indication of what you want to change, it's impossible to say.





Why don't you try asking again, but give relevant details.





Do you not like your job (if you have one)? If so, why not, and what do you want to do?





Are you in a bad relationship? If so, explain what's wrong with it.





We're not the Psychic Friends Network -- you need to tell us what's going on for us to be able to help you.