How can i change my life?

So i've went through a horrible break up, and i've decided to not think of love for a long time. It's not easy, thats why i figured i need to keep myself engrossed in other things to make me forget about love and so on. The problem is i don't know how to start!

I've started going to Gym, but that's not enough. I need other activities, can you suggest anything?? that i can do it, or learn it alone?How can i change my life?
It's difficult without knowing some of your circumstances in terms of where you are in your life. Still, I think joining a gym is an excellent idea. Exercise produces endorphins that naturally elevate your mood. You need to find your voice. You can journal. You can start a blog on your MySpace page. You can take up a photography class, or another art class. You can volunteer your time at a local soup kitchen or hospital to get a sense of those less fortunate. Are you enrolled in school? You can take some community education classes. They offer classes in a variety of topics. Build up yourself and repair your sense of self. Remember, a relationship does not define you, it is merely an extension of you. I wish you nothing but the best.How can i change my life?
It is never easy . I volunteer alot . If theres a Make a Wish in your area or a mentoring group join its very rewarding and makes your self confidence go through the roof. Besides when your doing for others you see we don't have it so bad . Good luck