Tuesday, May 31, 2011

When you are waiting for something that could change your life forever, how do you deal with it?

I applied to Cambridge University this year and I have just received a letter saying that my application has been ';pooled';. This means that the college I applied to has decided not to give me a place, but it has passed my application on to other colleges within the uni to see if any of them have a place for me.



I'm trying to just put the whole idea out of my head for now, but I have never been so nervous in all my life. I wish they had just told me yes or no! How do you deal with waiting for something really significant to happen? And how do you deal with the disappointment if that something was really bad? :o(When you are waiting for something that could change your life forever, how do you deal with it?
Awwww, I sympathise. When I was your age I had the exact same problem. (it was only 6 years ago, but time flies)



At this stage, your application and what happens as a result of it is entirely out of your hands, therefore all the worrying in the world and stressing about it will change nothing. Just tell yourself you gave your absolute best, nobody could have done any more then you did, and that there is no shame in not managing or accomplishing something if you gave 100%. The important thing is that you had a crack at it.



None the less, I hope you get in and things work out well for you. And if it doesn't, don't panic. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. Whatever happens, the best is yet to come.



I applied with a friend, they got in and I didn't. We sort of grew apart so I don't know what they ended up doing, but after doing a BA (joint) in philosophy and international relations I find myself 6 years alter working for the ambulance service. Its a funny old world, and things have a way of working out in ways you could never have guessed.



Good luck!When you are waiting for something that could change your life forever, how do you deal with it?
Glad I could help, best of luck to you and let us all know if you manage it, and if you don't, to hell with it - it might be the best thing that happens to you either way, like I say its a funny old world.



Take care!

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I am in the same predicament with jobs atm, it drives you crazy doesn't it! Lol

The only thing that has saved me from drowning in anxiety is my belief in what ever happens is meant to happen.



Whats meant to be is meant to be!

All the best, i really hope you get accepted! Just remember if you are not successful in this instance the next opportunity or avenue you face is the right one!
hii dnt be dishearted .be bold,

there is something good that you will inshallah soonly know.

believe in Allah and also rather than waiting for something to happen ,making something to be happened is better.

do best in those matters which are in your hand and leave those which are not in ur hand bcz Allah is always there..

and for ur second question concerning about dealing with disappointment i have a link http://www.goodcharacter.com/YCC/Disappointment.html

i found many thing on this link..

visit it.........

and plzzz dnt make any impression on others that ur disappointed .

take care



amad_876@yahoo...
Just remember this: a lot of people that teach at Harvard, or Cambridge, etc., did not (initially) go to school there. It sounds like you will do just fine at whatever college you go to, and then can possibly transfer or take graduate studies. You might wind up teaching AT Cambridge! :)
I didn't have the experience when was a teenager because I lacked the education but as a woman I begun inventing and the waiting between 'news' when first started was very difficult to deal with. Constantly on my mind etc, waiting by the phone. Time taught me patience there. I, by chance started on another project too while waiting to hear the news and that was the best thing I could do. Not only did it help take the first project off my mind but it was my fallback for a huge disapointment (I was scammed) yet it was the beginning of many other positive things because it taught me to do things for myself in which I went on and did.

How about creating something to help with keeping things off your mind. Something positive so if there is a disapointment to come you have another thing to keep you positive-hopeful.

I wish you luck xxx
Ask yourself how many happy people never went to Cambridge.



I'll bet there are so many that you can't count them all.



Feel better now?



Cambridge is not ';THE'; key to happiness; it's a ';POSSIBLE'; key to happiness. There are many ';OTHER'; keys to hapiness out there.



When placed in a POOL, you can choose to sink or swim. Assuming you will choose to swim, keep in mind that you can swim toward one of those other colleges at the university, or swim in another direction altogether; that is, away from Cambridge.



During my years in life, I often learned that a direction I was headed in wasn't always the best direction for me. And when it wasn't, I usually ran into barriers. Initially, I tried to navigate through the barriers; later I learned that there was a message there. So, I looked for another direction that seemed to allow me to move forward more easily. Travelling in those other directions brought me to my current and happy existence. I didn't get here because I was a big shot, or a hot shot. I got here by giving it what I viewed as my best shot.



So, my message to you is that you shouldn't be discouraged. Things happen for a reason. Maybe you weren't meant to go to Cambridge. I know I wasn't. If you are meant to go there, the gate will open for you. If not, then it won't.



Just take it a day at a time. Happiness is just around the corner. Go with the flow. And the flow doesn't have to be Cambridge.



If you had a choice between Cambridge and endless struggle, and another path and endless happiness, what would you want?



Well, the choice is yours, just as my choice was mine. And incidentally, I'm a high school drop out. I never had a great job, never made much money, and never planned much for the future. In spite of it all, I'm now retired, have enough money to meet my needs, and in another four years, when social security kicks in, my income will be three times what I need to live on comfortably (well, what I consider comfortable). I currently live in a condo in Maryland (paid for) but want to sell it and move to an apartment in Florida in another 4 years. Then, all I'll do is eat, sleep, exercise, and drives to the seemingly endless beaches for fun walks on the shores.



And, as incredible as it may seem, I got to this point without Cambridge. So don't fret; just take it a day at a time. Happiness is just around the corner.

What would you like to ask?im miserable. how do i change my life, or living arrangements. ?

also, if i keep calling my ex bf, and he hardle ,almost never calls, does that mean its over? i am sad that it does, and dont know how to move on, or fix my environment,What would you like to ask?im miserable. how do i change my life, or living arrangements. ?
Find your inner beauty and not need the approval of anyone else ever. Become independent in thought and action and seek others who are same. If your emotional well being is dependent on what someone else does or said, you'll never have a happy life. :)What would you like to ask?im miserable. how do i change my life, or living arrangements. ?
I'm guessing he is your ex for a reason.



Stop calling him and focus your attention on someone who will reciprocate said attention.



You will be able to move on eventually, just find something to fill your time so you don't sit around wondering about him.
It's over, move on. Get a hobby. Or Flirt a little. You won't change if you stay the same.
i think u should go on a joy ride and be happy. or find a guy that will cherish you and honor you, and be happy with you. or be happy and single...

How can I change my life? I am 23 years old and living with my mom and have a GED...?

The only option of a job is laborer job but thats the only job that pays enough for my needs but i'll have no time to take classes.... Im Looking for a decent paying job to pay for classes but its hard to pay for the classes and food/phone/gas.... and ideas? I'm in such a mess its sometimes unbearableHow can I change my life? I am 23 years old and living with my mom and have a GED...?
You may need to work one term, school the next, so you can afford to live on your own. It sounds like it's way overdue.



Sometimes school needs to be seen more flexibly or taken on line, so you can achieve all your goals without losing your mind in the process.



Good luck and try not to put too much pressure on yourself.How can I change my life? I am 23 years old and living with my mom and have a GED...?
get maried
Do what I'm doin become a truck driver I'm going tomorrow to apply.
The military helps you have a job and be able to afford classes at the same time. Plus they provide food, shelter and clothing. Check out the Armed Forces Recruiters in your area.
No more gas money for Cars. That is a waste of time and money. Why don't you ride a bicycle instead to get around. Go to school and take your classes. Labor ready is available probably during the hours you off of school. Take your time don't be in such a rush. Why do you need a car? That's silly to have one right now!
I am pretty sure, but don't hold me to it, that if you are 23 and have zero to low income, you basically get a lot of financial aid, enough to cover a lot of universities. SO you could just go to community college and get credits there, and community college is cheap to begin with, so you might just get everything for free, sometimes even the text books.



Actually I found the info



http://www.finaid.org/calculators/dependency.phtml



You have to have been born before January 1, 1986, which is true with you.



The only problem is that this is for next year. So I say you work now, make all the money you can, and then go to college for cheap, or even free next fall.
Hi Bo,

Your not a mess trust me. There is always someone suffering more than you. Your so young, all you need to do is chill and get into college. They have loans and grants for students. Just get out of your head and complete 4 years of college and you will be sooo proud of yourself. You can always chill in a foreign country where its cheap and can do online college as well. Take some meds if you need some stress relief


I think you might have to figure out your priorities and what is the most important thing for you to do first. Then you should probably figure out what you would like to do for a career. Make a plan for your life, for example:

#1 is to get a degree

#2 get a good job

#3 move out of Mom's house

Maybe think of getting a fitness instructor certificate and becoming a personal trainer. Or being a bartender or a waiter.



Money is an issue for many people and I think if you have a job and making at least some money, you can cut your expenses (get cheaper cell plan, etc) and put the money saved to other places (towards your school for example).
A factoid - most people change jobs every 5 - 6 years in the modern economy. As such, you don't have to decide where you'd like to be 20 years from now, just 5 years. You only get there one step at a time, and 5 years is a lot fewer steps to plan.



1. Pick your potential targets: reasonable for someone of your age and current training.

2. Read/research about what it takes to reach those targets regarding education, experience, and determine the proximity of possible opportunities.

3. If formal education is required, is it available on-line? It is available locally at night or when you are not working? Is it available in concentrated sessions on the weekends?

4. It will help to have mentors who have headed along the paths that you're considering. Some advice may be on-line such as this. Some advice may be available from local employment agencies. Some high quality advice will be available in organizations full of more successful men (e.g., consider joining a church in which the congregation is generally successful, and join a men's development group). You may be able to meet some people that are doing what you are interested in and get to spend a bit of time with them.

5. General education: go to the library and bookstore to pick up books that will help you continue to independently build your vocabulary, writing skills and math skills separately from job-specific training inferred above. People will continue to assess you as a potential member of their team during casual conversation, when reading comment sections of applications and relative to your mathematics skills. Your general skills can never be too polished.

6. Piece together an introductory plan and act upon it, revising it as you go.

7. Do not overlook the merits of your mother. If she is of respectable mannerisms, even if not well educated or connected, she will be a walking/talking business card for you if she is impressed with your efforts. She may cause opportunities and contacts to come about even inadvertently if you are making a worthy effort.

8. Wake up every day giving yourself an encouraging statement, and congratulate yourself every night for your vigilant efforts to move forward , even if for only nominal progress. You are making an effort.

How do i change my life?

I am at a point in my life where nothing seems to make sense anymore and i need to change it i need a direction and motivation but i dont know where to start. I am 34 and live in London not married have no kids and very much single and not sure where i am going or what i am doingHow do i change my life?
Sometimes after all you've been through in life, you find yourself end up in the same position empty handed. Life becomes meaningful because you make it meaningful. You've got the power to change your life, but how much you want it and how far you're willing to sacrifice is all up to you. Look around you, breathe in the fresh air of the ocean and feel warm embrace of the sun shining on you. Life is full of beauty, see it, feel it, and live it. YOU are in control of your life. Don't feel pressure to find a partner now. Who said you've got to be married to lead a happy meaningful life? Set yourself free, look for inspirations, set a goal for yourself and from there you will find a way. It's not always easy to find a motivation when right now it seems like you've been abandoned in a deep hole. However, YOU have the power to change and find a purpose in your life if really you believe in yourself that YOU can.How do i change my life?
For there's a change in the weather

There's a change in the sea

So from now on there'll be a change in me

My walk will be diff'rent, my talk and my name

Nothin' about me is goin' to be the same

I'm goin' to change my way of livin' if that ain't enough

Then I'll change the way that I strut my stuff

'Cause nobody wants you when you're old and gray

There'll be some changes made today

There'll be some changes made.
You have to want to change your life for it to happen, but you have to figure out why you want to change your life!



is it to meet a woman and have kids or start a new career or business? You didn't really give much info
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  • How can someone change his life style to a new healthy one?

    am 22 years old, in good shape for now, i do not exercise at all i work from 8am and don't get back home until 5:30 - 6:00pm .. 99% of my food is JUNK. i hate gaining wait i find it disgusting and if i do gain weight i would be depressed and probably eat more. whenever i suggest dieting no one takes it seriously and tell me that am the last person who needs a diet. in my family we have the tendency to gain weight.How can someone change his life style to a new healthy one?
    bring a healthy lunch with you to work and bring healthy snacks. Even if you continue the rest of your bad habits, this will help you get on track. Introduce healthy foods, you don't need to change everything in one day. Just start small and keep going. Good luck!How can someone change his life style to a new healthy one?
    Great age to stop the junk and eat good food. You should start slowly and eat more raw fruits and vegetables. I like to juice and I suggest a Jack Lalaine juicer as it is low cost and easy to clean. You need to take a multi-vitamin and use only good oils and no animal fats. Flax seed ground on cereal is a great source of omega-3 and so is salmon. I don't eat meat however I do eat eggs once in a while but I am finding that my body does not take well to them now that I have changed my diet. I have done this for 9 years and I only eat sweets for a treat. Try to eat more almonds and walnuts as they contain healthy oils. When eating peanut butter buy organic natural and make sure no hydrogenated oils are in your foods. Go to a sucanut sugar which you can get at your health food store. Exercise as much as you can and NEVER stop or you will regret it.I eat tofu and marinate it before I eat it or you can add it to salads for protein as it takes on the flavor of whatever you are using. I also use lots of fresh squeezed garlic on pasta and in a walnut oil and vinegar salad dressing with a little salt.Lots of legumes, Brown rice and beans also. Beans cause gas but if eaten with rice it helps prevent the gas. I hope this gives you a little start and good luck. Its great to hear that you are concerned about your body!Also try to take raw foods and nuts to snack on at work if you can and eat more small meals instead of one big meal.

    How do I change my life?

    Hey guys, I've posted here before. I'm 23, and gay. Up to this point, I can't remember a day in my life where I've been happy. I currently struggle with a obesity problem, depression, lack of confidence, etc. I've never had a real job or any kind of social life.





    I can never seem to find the motivation to change things, because something always brings me down. Everytime I look up, I see myself never being able to say no, whether it's involving food or someone asking for a favor. Like everyone else, I have dreams, but I always end up doubting them because I think too much about failing. I don't want to give up on me, so how do I go about changing my life? How do I turn things around? How do I find the happiness and success I deserve?How do I change my life?
    I know what you are facing. I've faced the same kinds of issues in myself and my close friends.





    If you look behind the scenes in your life and your daily decisions, you might begin to realize just how entrenched your negative feelings and attitudes are.





    Look to the things that are important to you, and realize the scope of your attitude. Get to know the motivations you have deep down. When you gloss over them, its easy to forget that they are there. However, if you confront yourself with them on a consistent basis, you might just find how illogical some of your negative feelings are.





    I also recommend that you trust in any good friends you have for assistance. An outside perspective from someone you can trust is a valuable tool in making changes in your life. Do not try to make the journey alone.





    Challenge your thoughts and your decisions on a daily basis. Do not avoid the negative thoughts, feelings, memories, and secrets that seem to weigh down your soul. You will find that your negativity is held together by flimsy material.How do I change my life?
    you know the problem and apparently the solution.


    Work on it. Think positive and positive things will happen. Lose some weight and focus.
    Well, what you can do is just think of good things in life. Don't assume that you are going to fail, just think of that fact that you are going to succeed in whatever you do.


    If you have a good attitude towards your life, you gain the confidence and self esteem that you deserve, which in turn enables you to find the happiness and success!


    Think about it: if you have an attitude in which you think you will fail, chances are, you will fail, because you won't try as hard as you normally would.


    Take some steps to get out of your shell. Go out with friends, do some activities that you love! Pretty soon, you'll begin having your life back together again!


    I know it sounds corny, but it might work. Trust me :)


    Hope this helps :)
    Ok.


    (1) Think about your sexual orientation again....... are you actually, biologically gay, or are you being gay to rebel against a society that doesn't like anyone different?


    (2) If you are still gay, you need to understand that it doesn't matter. I don't know much about gay people, but if you are uncomfortable with the way people treat you, you should learn not to give a crap, cos' it doesn't matter whether you are gay or not. You are a person, and you are gay, and as long as you are not uncomfortable with it, you should respect yourself for that.


    (3) Your obesity problem... well, you seem to have realized that it is, indeed, a problem, which is a big plus. But it is cos' of your depression that you don't seem able to do anything about it.


    (4) Look, dude.... you need to put yourself out there. It is hard at first. But you need to look for a job, stop this self-pitying thing, cos' it takes you no where, and start sociallising with people.


    (5) You need to see a counselor. Seeing one doesn't mean you are crazy... it just means you talk to someone that understands, to work out some things in your life.


    (6) About the failing thing........ dude.. we ALL fail in our lives. And normal people fail more than they actually succeed, because they try a lot. But this trying alot also means that they inevitably get success at some point. So don't count yourself as too unspecial... you're as ';special'; as the rest of us.





    Dude, the last time I looked, life wasn't all easy or difficult... it's just life.... we are all born, go to school, compete with others for a job, and however much we want something, we still have to work our a*s off to get it.





    So, to find happiness, you need to get it into your head, that it's not only you that fails... all of us fail more than we succeed. And cos' we all like to live, we try harder and harder, until we succeed.





    So, just hang in there, relax, change your attitude, see a counselor, start eating healthy (cos' it's your life, dammit!), look for a job, and this way you will be happy enough to socialise with people.





    Good luck. Jeez.
    let me put it this way.... i live very similarly to you. i think you need to do is get someone to be romantically involved with and your spirit will rise to heights never before even fathomed of
    You need to lift weights and workout regularly. Like 4 times a week with at least 20 mins of cardio each session. That will get rid of your depression and correct your weight problem and help with your self confidence. You may also want to see a therapist or a consoler that can help you work through unresolved issues in your life and get you on the right track to living a fulfilling productive life.
    The only way to change your life is by being active.
    I'm sorry you feel that way, if I were you I would pray. (I don't know what your religion is but pray to whatever god you worship.) Going to church or joining a club is a great way to meet people and socializing makes you feel better. Try finding a hobby you enjoy doing, whether it is sports or poetry or reading or writing or dancing or watching movies or playing an instrument as long as it makes you happy and is something constructive do it.


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    As for the obesity thing I would see a doctor and if at all possible consider weight loss surgery. Or try diet and exercise. Losing weight does make you feel better. Stepping on the scale each week and seeing the pounds fly off is a real confidence booster. And eating healthier improves your mood and health.








    But the first step is positive thinking. Chase away all negative thoughts and replace them with happy thoughts such as ';I believe I can.'; ';I will try my best'; ';I will succeed'; it may seem corny but it does help.


    Go to your local bookstore and purchase a book on positive thinking, I did and it changed my life. Seriously.





    Maybe see a counselor if your depression worsens. I wouldn't recommend pills though because people can easily become addicted to those.





    Good luck and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!








    :)
    Depression is a major obstacle when trying to get your life back on track. It will cause you to lose faith in yourself and feel like you can't succeed. If want this to change, my best advice would be to talk to your doctor about your depression. I know some people don't feel comfortable talking to doctors about their mental health issues, but it's really nothing to be embarrassed about. It's an illness that infects thousands of people every year, and it is treatable. Unfortunately clinical depression is really really hard to shake off without medication. And until you overcome it, you may find your efforts to improve your self-confidence continually hampered by self-doubt.





    Another thing your doctor can help you with is a specific diet and exercise plan to help you with your obesity. You can do anything at all you set your mind to, and if you're really determined to lose weight and regain your health and self-esteem, your doctor can help you do that in the healthiest and most suitable way for you specifically. It won't happen overnight, and it may seem like the results take forever, but it will happen if you stick to it. Just keep your eye on the goal and focus on getting through one day at a time. Don't think about any failures that may come tomorrow, focus on not failing in the moment.





    You're not alone. I'm 25, lesbian, and have suffered from depression for the better part of 16 years, nor do I have hardly any friends at all to go to for comfort when I'm feeling down. I'm not obese, but I am overweight, and I've never had a job either.





    I have not taken my own advice and sought medical help for my depression, and well...I'm still suffering because of it. However for my weight problem, I recently decided to take up hiking. I was resistant to the idea at first 'cause I usually hate walking, but now I've found it's really a calming and peaceful way to get in a good workout, and I've already lost 3 pounds in the last couple weeks so, apparently it's working. You should try and find a physical activity that relaxs and refreshes you so that you don't absoluetly dread your workouts when they come around.





    I know it can be hard to say no to your favorite food, but you could try eating only half of what you normaly would. Like if you love Big Macs, cut it in half and make it 2 meals instead of just one. That way you won't have to quit cold turkey, and it may ease any cravings while at the same time cutting your calories down from what's the norm for you. I know most medical professionals will tell you to cut out the junk food altogether, but I myself have found this impossible, so instead I just compromise with my tastebuds. Once you start losing weight, you may find your self-esteem rising with every pound you lose. But as I said, the best way to acheive both of these goals would be to talk to your doctor first and get his/her medical opinions and/or medication to aid you in your quest to becoming the happy person you deserve to be.
    I have no miracle answer. I do have an idea though. Try reading a book called ';Who moved my cheese?'; It might help some. Bottom line no matter what is this:





    Power comes from within, you need to take control of that power. Within you is the power to change, touch, and revitalize life. Not just others, but your own to. When and if you have the true desire to do so, you will. Then and only then will things change, the power and momentum of the change may surprise you.
    I like the last sentence. You need to find your way out of this situation. Find a counselor as you will need support. Join a gym; see if you can find a personal trainer. You need to be healthy. Find a job. That will connect you to other people. It will give you a sense of purpose.
    You have to decide for yourself that you are worth it. You deserve to be happy. Then put one foot in front of the other and make your life happen. Don't let yourself have the time to get tangled up in depression, low self esteem, whatever. Just go do what you need to do to have the life you want.





    Just remember- you are worth it. You do deserve it. Your life can be whatever you want it to be.
    Quitters never win and Winners never quit
    Talking to a counselor might help. I suggest that first.





    Then I suggest you pick one thing you want to work on in your life -- stay focused on that until you reach your goal.
    First do not put youre self down always think positive ..my answer for ure problem will be to take it easy a great way to solve all of ure stuff is to take walks.....walking wiil help trust me but dont start whith a 5 mile run how about 20 or 30 min.O yea you gave me a great answer to my problem so i wanted to thank u im the mexican seems that u have 2 mexican friends now!!!!!BYE
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    How many points will change your life today in football?

    football nutjobs , only an excuse to get drunk, angry. wot a waste of a piece of yahoo. this section would be better to be changed into readers wives pics or something as opposed to day in day out muthafukkin crap about a moronic game of football between opposing trouble making tw@ts. 'i was born this way my da was one' you stupid idiots. what if your da was a mass murderer?How many points will change your life today in football?
    i have no idea what him above said but i agree, bummed in face lmao.How many points will change your life today in football?
    bummed in the face bummed in the face a childs been bummed in the face. what are you saying? been bummed bummed in the face. now slow down and tell me. a childs been bummed in the face. bummed in the face you say. someone call the police this child has been bummed in the face. what seems to be the problem. been bummed in the face. quiet you ill tell him. officer this child has been bummed in the face.
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    When do/did your priorities in life change?

    I'm 21, about to move in to my own place for the first time. I'm in a long term relationship, in face we are engaged.



    I was thinking the other day how if I suddendly died I'd lament the fact I was never able to say goodbye to Mum and Dad...my fiancee was secondary to them. However when I asked some friends, they were the other way around- they thought of boy/girlfriend, wife/husband first, then the parents. These people were all aged 18 to 50, some still living at home, others long ago moved out.



    So I was wondering when this change in the 'closeness' of loved ones comes about, if at all in some people. Losing mum and or dad at this stage in my life, I think, would affect me much more than my fiancee- sounds harsh but it's true.



    So what's your opinion? Cheers!When do/did your priorities in life change?
    I think it just were your priorities lie, I would think of my daughter, then husband, then parents.When do/did your priorities in life change?
    I think at this stage in your life your priorities are normal and understandable.



    You're still very young and you're connection with your parents are still close at hand. They were your caregivers just 2-3 years ago.



    Also the love you have for a wife, the love your have for your parents, and the love you will have for your children will not be the same....they are all different kinds of love.
    The day my 1st child was born was the first time . It , like everything else changes in respect to life circumstances .
    mine changed 10 yrs ago when I realised I would not have my parents forever so I put them first and took early retirement to care for them and must say really enjoyed having extra time with them, now only have the one but i've no regrets, you only have one mum and dad so love them as you have the rest of your life in front of you.
    At some stage, and I guess it is different with most people, as with your friends, changes take place in our relationships with parents and wife/girlfriend. I was very close to my mother and my wife. I am Irish, living in London. I always told my wife that I was going home to Ireland and when I would get back to London. Within days of my mother's funeral, that all changed without me realising it. It was my wife that pointed it out to me, that since mom's death, I now say I am going over to Ireland and will be back home on a certain date.......... Strange but true, my 'home' is now with my wife, whereas before, subconsciously it was where mom was..................
    I think your priorities change when you find someone that you love more than you love yourself.
    children - my parents and husband a joint 2nd- but then there are my sisters and my niece and nephew!!- oh god look what you've started - i'll never sleep now!!!

    How did my chemical romance change your life?

    i listened to the song im not okay and then i wanted to know more about what they do.How did my chemical romance change your life?
    BEST BAND EVER!!! change my life? ummm... i no longer listen to crap like taylor swift, the jonas brothers, and the hip hop/rap genre in general that seems to dominate our society. they arent emo either. btw, i hope more of their songs are like desolation row.How did my chemical romance change your life?
    MCR sucks. im sorry and i know i'll get TD's from this, but i just can't stand them....
    it didn't change my life, but they rock I..I.

    listen to desolation row, a cover from Bob Dylan's (he's awesome also) song!



    Oh haters, you don't know real music!!!
    it made me hate emos even more
    They made me hate modern music even more
    made me relise **** music
    They didn't. Spiritually, Jesus Christ changed my life. Musically, listening to Warren Zevon changed my life.
    Well actually, they made it worse, because they suck so bad.
    They made me realize that yes, it is possible for me to hate a band.
    Change my life?
    They changed my life by taking popular music into a realm of trite, meaningless garbage that it had never dared go into before.
    They took 4 minutes from me that I will never get back.,

    They are crap.
    The made me kill myself because they're shitty music is so unbearable.
    It made me realize how god awful ';rock'; music is now a days and just music in general. It also made me realize that kids will do anything to fit in, because liking and dressing like that band could be one of the most retarded things of all time and everyone knows it.
    they are the greatest band! they make me feel amazing when i hear them. gerard way's voice is amazing. the music is.....i cant even explain it. i love them soooooo much! check them out! (they are not emo by the way...they are punk-ish )
    By declining their music, I was able to explore good music.
    They further destroyed my faith in human beings...



    Plus they made me realise the only band that should try and be The Smiths is The Smiths.
    it makes me depressed that people keep that band alive and kicking, wow nothing worse than musicians who don't understand what music is. if you even want to call them musicians more like kids who have someone wright there songs for them.
    MCR SUCKS
    MCR changes lives? What is this blasphemy? Yes their songs are OK but they don't ';change lives';. Nor is your apparently ';life changing'; experience not that life-changing! Disturbed kick's MCR's @$$.
    they didn't even affect me
    They made me realize how much someone could make music suck.
    Who?
    WHAT THE ***** IS WRONG WITH ALL THESE PEOPLE!!



    Yes I know everyuone is titled to their own opinion but whos to say MCR sucks?



    My chemical romance is the best band ever they rock and everyone knows it, even if they don't like their songs.



    When I didn't know what sort of music I would decide to listen to, I heard a mcr song and and decided: Thats the sort of music I'm gonna follow, and since then, I've joined the mcrmy to fight against haters. Which in this case is everyone but like 2 people. so ... FACE!



    MY FAMOUS LAST WORDS ARE ABOUT MCR



    WOOOOOOOOOO
    they try to help depressed emos become better in life and to be happy and just live a normal life
    theyre my favorite band!!!! ok I'm REALLY bad at answering questions today aren't I... but still... what is WRONG with these people!?!? they keep saying my chemical romance sucks but they don't!!!! i would die in the most painful ways for them!!!!! I would like saw off my arm and my leg and LIVE for them!!!!!!!!!!!!
    WHAT HAVE THEY DONT TO NOT CHANGE IT!

    lol

    they have soo many good songs, i have leard, how to play them, sing them, and get meaning out of them!

    i feel really heald when i listen to all thier deep thoughs, it makes me feel better! even when im not okay ( i promise )

    xD

    they r amazing!

    they have helps me out in so many ways! even with my style
    They are okay. I went to their concert on May 9, 2008.
    Not in any way.In fact they make me sick of so called new music.Jesus saves not what's his name.
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  • Ok im a parolee and im trying to change my life im 23 and id like to get a job in Yosemite national park?

    can i / and how do i go about getting a job in . Yosemite's national park wild life year roundOk im a parolee and im trying to change my life im 23 and id like to get a job in Yosemite national park?
    ...and adding to Sunny's answer: Yosemite is VERY popular to work at, so competition is fierce. Try either getting in at a less popular park first, or doing volunteer work at Yosemite to get your foot in the door. Also, look at working for park vendors or contractors, as well as the park service, they can hire much more quickly (government jobs can take months to hire).Ok im a parolee and im trying to change my life im 23 and id like to get a job in Yosemite national park?
    Good for you! Go to: http://www.nps.gov/personnel for national park employment information. Good luck! They have all catagories from permanent to temp.
    Yes definately good for you. Madambre is right, but don't limit yourself to just Yosemite. If there aren't any opportunities there this summer, maybe there are jobs at other parks. If you take one of those, maybe you'll get on at Yosemite next summer.



    Good luck!

    Does a life changing event change your personality, if so how?

    say losing a loved one specifically someone you thought loved you only to find out not only was it wrong to love that person but that person don't love you. Sort of like realizing your whole life was a lie..? this happened to my best friend and she seems so much hyper now and boom her grades have improved?!?!? she used to be laid back and stuff with not so good grades...Does a life changing event change your personality, if so how?
    sometimes it does change your personality forever or maybe, just for that period of time when sulking or whatever.



    i remembered when i was really depressed because i liked this guy A LOT and he didnt give 1 penny into me. i didnt do what i shouldve in school. i didnt eat well. i barely got sleep. i became a mute-child for a while. everyone knew something was wrong with me. but then i got over my depression and became stronger. mistakes make you stronger. and my mistake was loving the wrong person.



    your friend will do the same. she'll hurt really bad now but life is not over. don't forget about that. ;)Does a life changing event change your personality, if so how?
    yeah, i believe it does, my dad recently passed away and i think i look at the whole way of life differently and how things are. And if i do something will it affect me. Anything can happen and now i feel like i live ever moment like there is not another day!
    Your friend probably went through a lot of sadness and anger after finding out what she did. An experience like that would definitely make someone wish to leave their old self behind and pursue a better future for themselves. That could explain why she has suddenly become more active and studious. It is good to be hurt sometimes. It could change you for the better. Support your friend and her new choice of lifestyle.
    Heres one of my examples...a few years ago my family used to have money. We would be buying and building houses, purchasing luxury cars, buying whatever and whenever..now I'm living in the basement of my own house, the bank has taken our cars away and it caused me stressed and up untill about a week ago all I could think about was that in order to be happy I needed to have my big house again and newer cars and my lil luxury dreams. I ignored what I had in front of me. A great boyfriend and my little boy. Now something terrible has happened to my boyfriend and the thought of losing him and my our family being broken apart hurts. ALOT. Before I thought these material things could make me happy, but all the luxuries in the world couldn't compare to the happiness and contentment that I feel when I'm with my boyfriend and have our family. I could care less for material things now all I want is my family and I'm definately more grateful now for what I do have then what I don't.
    depends on the details

    How do you change your life?

    i need some tips i am bored of my daily routine %26amp; need change in my life %26amp; suggestions of simple thing to start doing on my own to get me to change e.g. activities/hobbies etc %26amp; i want to start doing this things on my own as a lot of my friends are in relationships %26amp; others i just want to distance myself from for a while, while i am changing my life.



    thanksHow do you change your life?
    Think about why and how you want to change your life. Do you want to change your life for a particular purpose?

    Change your outlook on life. If you think your life sucks, then do things you love to do to make your life positive.

    Don't spend your money on junk such as candy, chips etc. Save it for important things and emergencies.

    If you want to, keep a journal and just write or sketch things when you are bored. Also, when you are doing something you might think of something you won't want to forget write it down express your feelings.

    Change your habits. Your life is what it is because of an accumulation of habits that you might not be aware of. Make note of those habits and break them.



    Good luck!How do you change your life?
    u have 2 change urself 2 change ur life.
    I am getting ready to change my life in a few months. I am getting a divorce. I am tired of being his slave and doing everything around here while he stays on the sofa all the time. We go nowhere and do nothing. Not once did he cut the grass, trim the hedges last year. I did everything around here and all he did was whine that if he got hurt he would call off of work. I am keeping some of my friends close but distancing from others. You need to get out of your shell and you will. Still keep some of those friends close by...only a certain few and they will help you make your life changes together.
    maybe switch churches, pick up a new hobbie (one that allows you to interact with others), get a part time job, martial arts, lots of stuff just think
    Self help books worked for me. And first it's not what you start doing, but what you stop doing, this allows room for the new ';stuff'; Sounds like you're on the right track. Give yourself time, be gentle with yourself. Positive affirmations might be something for you to look into. Hobbies? What did you like to play with as a small child, before you were told that you're ';too old'; for those things now.
    You have to find your path thru life, your passions and what makes you happy. Something you must find on your own, what works for one may not work for someone else. I was always after my boy to do his homework for the scholarships.. Never could get thru to him. From now on son you do it your way I can't help or do it for you. He was bored in school now in his third year at a University, on the deans list, at sixteen traveled by himself to some 22 countries learned a lot about other people and cultures. Spent a semester in Costa Rica learning Spanish and Political Science, Spent a semester as an intern in a U.S. Embassy, wrote a civil rights essay for Washington, ,Had no money for school got on want to be a millionaire and won it.My boy has to do it his way and I let him,



    i want to start doing this things on my own Only you can know your true passions and interests. They must be in your heart not in the heart of someone
    Go for a walk/run everyday! And each time change your route and time. Going for a walk or run can help clear your mind and give you time to think. Fresh air, new sights, etc are all good for the mind and can help you see a new perspective.
    to make your life more interesting... why dont u opt for such things or activities that make you

    happy???



    i reckon you should make a well organised time-table.. it may sound stupid but trust me atleast u'll abide by it. make it interesting and realistic according to your capabilities as to what time and when u can do a particular task...

    How has your life change since starting high school?

    just tell me things that have changed. it really iterestes me since i for fact that my life has changed from the stress to choices to friends. i wanna hear your story:).How has your life change since starting high school?
    My style changed, of course. Back then I just wanted to fit in, so I tried to wear what everybody else was wearing. It wasn't really me though and now I know better and I'll buy clothes just because I like them. I remember buying Hollister and Abercrombie clothes just because a lot of people wore them and I was kinda insecure and just wanted to fit in with them. Now, I wear a whole bunch of funky clothes and accessories. I just mix and match and get really creative with my clothes. Nobody commented on my clothes before, but now I get so many compliments on them! Just for not caring whether I fit in or not! I used to be so insecure and even though I smiled all the time, I felt disgusting inside. I'm less insecure now and genuinely happy. I fight with my parents a lot less. Some of my friends are the same, but I lost some friends and made some friends too. And school is school. I feel the same about it.How has your life change since starting high school?
    I'm only in the ninth grade, but it changed my life quite a lot.



    In my elementary school, I was one of those ';quiet kids'; who didn't really talk much, but had a lot of friends at school. But, ever since high school started, I got over my shyness and now I socialize a lot with everyone in my grade, even though I talk way too much sometimes.



    But, it also made me a nicer person. Last year I was always getting into fights and everything, but this year I changed. Met a girl, who I like. We're good friends, she made me who I am. Got me interested in world issues, and what not. I was a caring person before, but she makes me care even more now.



    As for the friends, I lost a few but made a lot.
    High School, alone, hasn't changed me much. But high school with family problems has made me realize high school isn't for every one and most relationships and issues I had through out high school, I won't have to deal with it ever again. One thing that I learned that seems important to me is: No problem is bigger or more of an issue than any problem; they're just different. Another one is: I may have gone through my share of **** in high school, but I feel more sorry for those who will have to go through it later in life.

    Help I am 40-50 lbs overweight.Where do I start? Diet?Exercise? How do I begin to change my life. ?

    I need some guidelines. Please keep it simple. The food needs to be grab and go. Easy to prepare. And cheap. Exercise I just don't know where to begin.Help I am 40-50 lbs overweight.Where do I start? Diet?Exercise? How do I begin to change my life. ?
    I lost 55 lbs 10 years ago and have kept it off. It is very important to know what you are consuming.. I wrote down the foods in every meal i ate and kept up with the calories and fat. I ate between 1000 and 1500 calories daily for about 6-7 months.. I ate healthy ( and still do) , low fat and low to no sugar foods.. I also started walking. I started out walking about 2 miles daily and gradually increased it up to about 6-7 miles a day now. I walk 3 miles at morning and 3 in the evenings.. It is now part of my life.. I make time for it and look forward to it every day. It takes about an hour in the mornings and an hour in the evenings.. much better than watching tv etc..Basically I changed my life style..eating and exercising.. I am close to being a vegetarian now.. when i do eat meat, I eat baked or grilled poultry( chicken or turkey) and fish... I love this healthy life style. I am a 67 year old male. I just recently had a stress test at my doctors office and he could not believe it.. I maxed the test out... walked and ran the entire 15 minutes ... he is 46 and said he couldnt do what I did.. .. you can change.. it takes mostly determination.. but after you start achieving results, it becomes much easier.. sort of fun...and walking is part of my life now... I love it. Also, I think it is very important to plan your meals ahead.. and have the right foods...that and keeping up with your daily calorie intake. I usually have oatmeal for breakfast and a fruit, good sized salad and chicken or tuna for luch..and ceral like cheerios for supper... i will also eat one or two more fruits during the day... I make sure I have 7-10 veggies in my salad. For treats on the week end I will fix a boca veggie burger on whole wheat buns.. the Original variety of the boca burgers are really good... lots of good soy products you can use..Help I am 40-50 lbs overweight.Where do I start? Diet?Exercise? How do I begin to change my life. ?
    Start by walking and it's really important to get in tune with your body. Know when your just being lazy or when too much is too much. Think healthy food. No junk. It's common sense. Just get a grip and control, but if you deprive yourself you may binge. All you have learned that you really don;t want to do is truthfully what you nee dot do. No quick fixes.
    First: Cut out Pop.



    Second: Cut out Chips and Junk Food.



    Third: Sign up to the gym.
    Buy a bike. Go biking. take an ipod with you to keep you motivated . Drink a lot of water .No soda. No fast food unless it's salad. Eat fruits and vegetables. strawberries and broccoli ect.



    EAT SPECIAL K FOOD.

    There are on-the-go foods there like special k bars and cereal. These foods also have chocolate and bluberries and strawberries so they are a variety.

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  • How to change your life? How to get inspired?

    Hi



    Im feeling down. Feels like I dont want to live but hey im not crazy who thinks about suicide!

    I feel like I cant make friends... it bores me... I couldn't make a sense of humor...



    I dont feel like studying! Im in college now and im afraid... I might lose my dreams... Im lazy

    How do I make myself energetic?How to change your life? How to get inspired?
    Change your habits. Your life is what it is because of an accumulation of habits that you might not be aware of. Make note of those habits and break them.



    Write down your goals. Where do you want to be in 5 years? 10 years? What do you want to accomplish before you die? Make lists and timelines. Keep them close to you, and read them every day, preferably when you wake up.

    Life is short. So, live it to the fullest! Enjoy all that it has to offer. Be adventurous. Explore, live on the edge a little and embrace new challenges.

    Visit new places with your loved ones. Take the road less traveled. Keep a journal. Record your accomplishments as well as your delights. Take time to reflect on what has been previously written. Be an inspiration to yourself and others.



    Maintain control. Be responsible for your actions and inaction. Be true to yourself. Maintain a personal code in the situation at hand. Find common ground. good luck.How to change your life? How to get inspired?
    become love now and stay as man at love or keep waiting and pass away to become female to wed man to share as.
    I constantly ask myself this question.

    Quotes about life give me temporary relief from this feeling, however its only temporary and they really dont help that much.

    Life often bores me too, although im only young and dont have a lot of freedom to do the things that would make me find an interest in life, and a want to keep living.

    You say you might lose your dreams, i also often fear these, surround yourself with things that remind you of your dream, and of why you want to fullfill it.

    Also, do everything that makes you happy. Be spontaneous!

    Your attitude is a big big part of your life, if you feel like you cant make friends then your going to struggle making friends, just be yourself, and no matter how bad you believe your sense of humor is, you'll make friends that love you for who you are, and for who you arnt, because what you are not, makes you what you are.

    How long have you been feeling like this for? Perhaps it is just a stage of your life, and you will soon find something or someone that makes you want to get up in the morning, spring out of bed and embrace life. But please I know its hard but try to put aside these feelings because as soon as you've found what you want in life, and your happy again, you''ll realise how much time you've wasted like this.

    Everything will work itself out in time, just put things in perspective, im sure whatever situation your in, things could get so much worse.

    Good luck my friend.

    How can the FBI/CIA change your life?

    i want to work for the FBI then CIA, how can working for these organizations benefit my life?How can the FBI/CIA change your life?
    Sure

    Why not?

    Look in the real world%26gt;

    Decode this lyrics '; You'll see ';

    ';Wonderful world';

    ';Don't know much';

    ';Wonderful wonderful';

    ';Wonderful life';

    ';What a wonderful world';

    ';Better man';

    FBI/CIA ?

    Fast on the feet with brain and intelligence?

    Then see in the air?

    Where?

    Out there !

    Glaring under the sun,moon and stars even on cloudy and rainy days too in time?

    Luke 21.30-36

    Luke 9.25,55-56,60

    Luke 24.44-45,47-48

    What do you think?How can the FBI/CIA change your life?
    Lots of free opium from Afghanistan. It is your duty to America to take the profits away from the terrorists.
    If you join the CIA, you get to bully police officers and get away with it.
    think the only benefit is when you are put on roll (collect some funds)!

    [and if you work your minds you collect enormous info-but cannot reveal any-(none will understand you)
    Dutch, work for one and you will despise the other so take your pick. But they want people with real talent and they watch the universities to pick that talent



    So work hard and they will seek you out



    Ofcourse IT and language skills are highly sought after

    I have found it hard to change my life. What is the best way to go about a radical change in lifestyle? ..?

    I am trying to begin to work out on a regular basis and also just try to be better in all area's of my life? I feel like I have been on a two year hiatus because I have been trapped in a dead end job, no travels this year, etc...I also want to be more spiritual but I happen to believe in reincarnation and Christianity (so it's quite tricky trying to go to church) I find myself living a very dull, work centered routine life and I know there are other options. Please if you have radically changed your life tell me what you did, and how? Thanks...I have found it hard to change my life. What is the best way to go about a radical change in lifestyle? ..?
    I have a quote you might want to consider: Recover is a process, not an event--author unknown. Same can be said of change. Some things I can say from personal exp.: dont' expect things to turn overnight, have patience; don't be so hard on yourself if you backslide, just get back on track. Change is gradual, and prayer has helped me and along with facing that I not only needed to change but wanted to change for my life's benefit.

    I believe in Jesus Christ %26amp; live my life according to his teachings but I am not religious. that was my old life %26amp; one of the things that I had to change because it held me back. So now I describe myself as spiritual; it's up to you to believe in both don't let ppl tell you how to follow God and what u can believe. Man wrote the Bible, remember god didn't sit down and write it so human interference is throughout the book though it is a guide. I don't know if you've ever read the bible but Christ said come as you are.



    There's a book I've read and it may interest you regarding reincarnation %26amp; christianity: Reincarnation - the missing link in christianity by Elizabeth Claire Prophet.I have found it hard to change my life. What is the best way to go about a radical change in lifestyle? ..?
    Thank you for picking my answer as the best but I appreciate more that I could be of help to you. God bless you %26amp; guide you on your mystical journey :-)

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    I killed myself, and it worked!
    Too long ago to apply to you. Let's instead look at your confusion on Christianity and reincarnation.

    You must not really believe in either as both says the other is wrong.

    I say my bible reads you get one chance to get it right and that's it. Not lifetime after lifetime to get better and better. What bunk.

    If you read up on either you would see you are caught in the middle. If you lean towards Christianity you accept Christ's sacrifice and stop trying to get to heaven on works .

    SWEARING HABIT, How do I stop? I'm trying to change my life for the better.?

    I'm a recovering addict, I've been through therapy %26amp; rehabilitation successfully %26amp; now I'm studying again at College. I've turned my life around %26amp; want to be someone. I stopped many bad habits %26amp; am now in with some respectable people. But I can't stop swearing! People pull me up, I don't even know I'm doing it. It sounds 'cheap %26amp; discusting' when I hear others swear %26amp; I want to have a good image. Any serious advice on how I can be more aware %26amp; stop?SWEARING HABIT, How do I stop? I'm trying to change my life for the better.?
    Easy and simple: don't swear!SWEARING HABIT, How do I stop? I'm trying to change my life for the better.?
    Spend a lot of time with a lot of little kids. When you hear those disgusting words coming out of the mouths of babes, you will be more careful about what comes out of your mouth. I have a 2 year old, a 4 year old, and a 9 year old.
    I'm in the same boat - I was never aware that I sounded that way until I started hang out with people that didn't sound that way....and then I STILL sounded the same way and I felt somewhat ashamed, or belittled over it, and I would be hard on myself, etc....and y'know, being hard on myself in that way never helped me....



    One thing that helped me was something I heard Will Smith give in an interview....he said he never used swear words in one of his rap songs because his grandmother once said to him that he was too intelligent to use that kind of language - that it was laziness - that there were plenty of kinds of words to use that better described how or what he was feeling than the four lettered kind....



    I try to keep that in mind about myself - that there are better, more effective, more accurate ways of expressing how I'm feeling...I was just being too lazy to find out what those words were - not just dictionary wise....but sometimes I simply didn't know how I felt, and I was too lazy, or too lacking in courage to find out.



    Another thing that helped, was not just trying to make ahabit of not saying those things out loud - but not saying them internally as well....
    Well, from your history you know about trying to break habits. The first step is to commit to a one month deliberate and conscious effort for every minute of the day. After that it will be a lesser but continuing effort for quite some time. Like all challenges, your success will be sweet. You will be proud.
    Like you said, it IS a habit. I too, found myself in the same situation you are in, while in my 2nd year of college. My worst times to cuss are when I am mad or excited about something and just blurting out what I'm saying in a hurry. I found that trying to come up w/ other more descent words or phrases to say in place of the ones I didn't want and trying to remember to pause and use them instead helped me out alot.



    For Example:

    Instead of: ';I'm so tired of my boyfriend's ****ing bull****!';

    Substitute: ';I'm so tired of my boyfriend's constant childish nonsense and his being so insensitive to my needs.';



    I too, sit back now and listen to others who talk like I used to and it makes me wonder WHY I ever wanted to sound like that to begin with because it does make you sound cheap and it is disgusting to hear especially when you are in a public or family setting w/ children's ears wide open.



    Best of Luck w/ your goal to quit!!

    How can i change my life?

    i used to always be happy, energetic, and just enjoy life. But now i feel like even if i try to act happy or try to enjoy life i feel the same. The more i try the more i get frustrated with myself and take it out on others. Also my attitude has changed to more agressive. i wish there was something i could do to bring my happiness back. like a ritual or meditation that could help my soul and mind???How can i change my life?
    There's a great website called Coping.org is has all kinds of information , and not the run of the mill stuff, very in-depth with exercises

    I found it helpful. Sometimes, we are unhappy for reasons that are selfish, maybe try volunteering.It couldn't hurt. Good luck and be wellHow can i change my life?
    most people get high but just think of wut gets u mad and ignore it out your life and enjoy the ones you cherish
    yoga


    keep trying, listen to meditation music every morning. you willl feel good
    i agree.



    i used to be this all smiles loving life kinda person.



    and now im not happy, although i always put on fake smiles in front of people.



    and im constantly searching for happiness...



    or someone who will change my outlook on life.
    you shouldn't have to ';try'; to be happy. just do things that make you happy and eliminate things that don't make you happy.
    My suggestion is that you simple relax buy some relaxing music and do yoga and release all that stress and maybe join the ymca as they have a yoga program and you can learn many different techniques and calm down and lose all that stress
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  • How will day to day life CHANGE if obama is president, will i have more money on my paycheck?

    No, the gubment will take MORE of your money away from you, thats what democrats do. and that ';change'; he is talking about is the chnage in your pocketsHow will day to day life CHANGE if obama is president, will i have more money on my paycheck?
    Yeh, that's it. More money,HA HA HA HA HA HA!How will day to day life CHANGE if obama is president, will i have more money on my paycheck?
    only the change hes been running his mouth about will be in your pockets
    I don't think so. I think that Obama is just spiting out the same old slogans they all do.

    If you want more money in your paycheck, you should really check into Ron Paul. The man is far from being a ';nut case';.
    LOL depends...does the strip club pay you in any other manner?
    No,you will have less and pay more taxes to cover the programs he has in mind.With his lax attitude about National Security you may not have a safe country to work in,so less of a paycheck won't matter anyway if your dead.
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    I can't take it,

    HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA

    My side is killing me, OH OH OH OOOOOOOOOH
    If Obama becomes president just look back and remember Jimmy Carter
    Hon, you are a Republican! We have soooo many more important problems in this country than whether you make more profit! Vote forr McCain, he will keep the war going for 100 years. That should put plenty of money in your pocket, right?
    If your rich then youll lose money, if your a hardworking american you will make more money.

    How long does ';change of life'; last for most women?

    My wife is going through female menopause and there seems to be a wide variance in what age it kicks in, and when it subsides. What was it like for you? What was it like for someone you know?How long does ';change of life'; last for most women?
    Ten years usually.



    The normal age to hit menopause (Periods stop) is 51.



    When going through peri-menopause (the period of time when things go crazy until the periods stop) can last ten years. This can begin as early as age 36.



    When you hit menopause (periods stop and hot flashes go on), the symptoms can go another five to ten years.

    My mom had hot flashes for five years after she hit menopause at 53.How long does ';change of life'; last for most women?
    for my mum it took ten years, but it differs with most women, usually between 5 and 15 years in total.

    I want a major life change?

    My like seems dull and boring I have way too much free time on my hands, even though I go to work and school. I am tired of the same old thing every day and would like to have new experiences and actually do something productive with my time. I need some suggestions on how I can change my life and myself for the better.I want a major life change?
    This answer has nothing to do with religion.



    Since you were custom-designed by God for His purposes, and not yours, I'd suggest starting a relationship with Him by accepting Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord. Everything you are and have are His and should be used for Him. When you draw closer to God in a relationship, He'll draw closer to you and show you His plans about your future. That's what He did for me, and has already promoted me in unexpected ways.



    God is wisdom, knowledge and understanding, and He'll be glad to give them to you when you put Him first in your life. Then you and others will notice a major life change in you as He changes you from the inside out.



    God's purpose is for us to love and serve Him, and to assume godly character. Our main emphasis should not be about life here, but preparing for eternity- this is forever. God is your Manufacturer who knows you better than anyone else. Your relationship can start by asking Jesus Christ to come into your heart as your Savior. Ask Him to forgive you for any wrong and to cleanse you from it. Tell Him you believe He is the Son of God and thank Him for dying for you. Confess that you believe He rose again, and ask that He help you live for Him.



    If you meant what you just prayed, Congratulations, and welcome to the family of God! Keep the relationship going by

    o Talking to God everyday about everything. Spend time alone with Him.

    o Reading, meditating, and applying His Word daily from the Bible to your life. Start with St. John from the Message or Amplified Bible version.

    o Making friends at a local Bible-teaching, Holy Spirit-led church, where you can be encouraged in your walk of faith

    o Telling others about Jesus Christ and how He's blessed you.



    Check out the links below for more tips.I want a major life change?
    u need to get a boy/girl friend to fix up ur boring life dude ! , or go on a vacation/cruiz btw cruizes are really easy ways to meet people so try that! good luck dude =]
    We always seem to want what we don't have. When our lives are dull and boring, we want fun and excitement. When our lives are fun and exciting, we want peace and tranquility. One thing I have learned over the years (47 of them) life is most like a roller coaster. So be careful for what you ask for. Change happens.

    I just saw the movie slumdog millionare and it made me realize how spoiled I am. I want to change my life, how?

    I hate this American lifestyle of placing value of material things over love. I hate living America, because even the poor are rich and everyone takes life for granted. I am so depressed and nothing gives me joy. I am graduating from high school this june and I want to pursue a lifestyle free from materialistic things. What can I do? Join the peace corps? I want to find true love and live happily. Am I stuck forever?I just saw the movie slumdog millionare and it made me realize how spoiled I am. I want to change my life, how?
    YOU COULD (sry for the caps...) try living in the forest...build a wooden house...I just saw the movie slumdog millionare and it made me realize how spoiled I am. I want to change my life, how?
    people from around around the world immigrate to US coz u wouldn't find anywhere as good as here now u think it's not fine?!u have no idea how horrible lifes are in some other countries!love, u'll find it whitin your heart %26amp; the people around you not the place you are in! you've no idea what u have

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    Just because you are spoiled doesn't mean everyone in America is. I for one certainly do NOT take life for granted or put everything into materialistic things. There are many of us Americans that do NOT take life for granted.

    Is it possible for me to change my life?

    Yes, I dearly wish I could snap my fingers and my life would scramble around and change. But I've been snapping for 5 minutes and the only change that happened is my fingers are now hurting! I just came back from a slumber party (but I didn't spend the night because I have 2 English projects due at the end of the weekend) and I realized how unhappy and dissatisfied I was with my life.Can I just up and change? Become the person I want to be? How?Is it possible for me to change my life?
    Sure.

    Why not?

    Look in the real world.

    Decode this lyrics '; You'll see ';

    ';Wonderful world';

    ';Don't know much';

    ';The Great Commandments';

    ';For he's a jolly good fellow';

    ';I will follow him';

    ';Fame';

    ';Escape ( If you like Pina Coladas)

    ';Change partner';

    ';Last waltz';

    ';Tennessee waltz';

    Who should we change?

    With Jesus?

    Mr. Mohammad?

    Mr. Gautama Buddha?

    Mr. Confucius?

    Mr. Tao?

    Shambo the mad cow?

    Pick your partner?

    With the Book of the Living ?

    With the Book of the Dead?

    With Blue Book?

    Love is Blue?

    Luke 21.30-36

    Luke 9.25,55-56,60

    Luke 24.44-45,47-48

    What do you think?Is it possible for me to change my life?
    Yes you can, for the worse if you do it now. For the better if you tough it out and finish what you started. Your life will change whether you want it to or not. Time does that. Your attitude though is up to you and you can make the best of your time or the worst of it.
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    need to make investment moneyTrying to change my life, want to work from home,how to start online business with no money?
    r.sionnach@yahoo.com



    I have been working from home for 5 years.



    It is great to be able to set my own hours and work days, but is still work. If you are serious, send me an email to the address above or see my profile for more information.



    I can help you get started and give you any advice I can through email or read my Yahoo profile.Trying to change my life, want to work from home,how to start online business with no money?
    invest in your piggy bank.
    you could try working from home as an independent contractor for a company like www.liveops.com or www.liveworks.com these are legit. companies that contract with individuals for home based work. there are no real start up costs except a required back ground check. You will not get rich with these but you can make a ull time income from home making your own scheduale.
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    Hi Tybees,

    First off, its not so easy but is possible.It really is.You would need to invest some money, it need not cost the earth though-you need a web host and domain name. There is so much information out there, some good, and some not so good.It is all too easy to give up in frustration.

    What I recommend is finding clear how to information, from people who care.
    Everything cost money- sorry. But I have good news. You can change your life and work from home by partnering with us. You already shop for your personal home products like detergent, body wash, shampoo, toothpaste, hairspray, candles, vitamins and the list goes on and on. Just change where you shop, tell others and you will make a difference in your life. Let me tell you more and our promotion until the 13th is that you can start this for only $1. No obligation, money back guaranteed. www.stayinhomeandlovinit.com/rozpetal

    Good luck, Elaine
    there are numerous ways to earn money online, but most of them require certain registration fee. if you wish to earn without investing anything, then i will suggest you PTC sites, where u get money to click advertisements.................. i myself is earning respectable side income from them. all you have to do is register and start clicking advertisements right away.

    You might earn slow in the beginning but once u buy refferal packs from the money u've earned, it multiplies your earnings and speeds it up. and moreover its a totally genuine and scamfree way of earning.



    PATIENCE IS THE KEY



    i signed up for many PTC sites, among which many were scams and did not bother to pay me any money. but the link below indicates a list of those sites, from which im actually earning, on regular basis:



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    works for minors as well !! (NO AGE RESTRICTIONS)
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    contact sba.gov for general approach

    focus on need and demand assessment

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    hula hoop ideas are not everyone's cup of tea

    many websites are reasonable

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    I want to congratulate you on wanting to change and get more out of life. The problem with the question you asked is who can you trust over the internet. I started my own company at the age of 17 and became a self made millionaire by the age of 25, hard to believe I know. But after working one day at a restaurant I decided I would never work for minimum wage or for anyone but myself. I retired at the age of 50 when one of my sons was in a motocross accident and suffered permanent brain damage. I now devote my time to helping as many people I can start their own businesses from home. Read my profile if you wish. I am always available to help and answer your questions.
    Its very simple go to mvil.ws and you will be making a good income in a couple of weeks.It actually works and you don't have to do a lot of work and it comes with a 7 day free trial. If you don't like it you can cancel before the trial is up and not be charged a dime. And with all this you receive your own website and ten emails the way you like them.If you choose to stay to stay all you do is pay $10 a month which is nothing because you will be making so much and don't forget you can cancel at any time. The site is mvil.ws and if you want more info and the video go to freedom.ws and the access code will be mirlandev. Any questions please email me.
    Yes people can make money online and its easy. The hard part is finding a company that will actually pay you your earnings. I've been through thick and thin. I've been scammed over 5 times. Discouraged, Beaten down, Lost I tried 1 last time and god answered my prayers. If it wasn't for my children I wouldn't look. All i did was sign up, watched the video presentation. Then they took my credit card info. But there is a seven day free trial and if you don't like it you can quit at anytime. After the seven day free trial you will be charged $10 a month which is nothing compared to what you will be making. It's really a bargain.All that you have to do to earn money is to refer people and make sure they sign up. For every 5 people that sign up under you, you will receive $100 dollars in a check to your name!! There is also many more features such as you get your own website. You give it any url that you want and you can sell stuff on your site or anything that you want to do with your site. There are a lot of great features that come with this package.At first I thought this was a scam too but once i got my check I literally went on my knees and thanked the lord. All this for only ten dollars and now im thinking of getting some stuff to sell so i could make a lot more money.If you are interested just sign up at mvil.ws or for more info go to freedom.ws and the passcode will be mirlandev
    From Home is the Where, Online is the How (and Where).



    You need to start with the What.



    What are your unique skills and abilities that will let you add value to a transaction? If you're just buying and reselling stuff on a web site, there's no value added - you'll have hundreds of competitors and the profit margin will be nil.



    Start by figuring out what you can do well, then ask yourself if that's a product or service that can be effectively delivered online.



    If so, put together a business plan detailing

    * your customers (and how you'll reach them)

    * your competitors (and how you'll beat them)

    * your management plan (sole proprietorship? LLC? insurance? banking? How you'll handle shipping %26amp; returns, etc.)

    * your marketing strategy



    And please, for the love of Pete, ignore all the ';Make $2000 a month/no experience required'; scams. They're all -- I repeat, ALL -- crap and not worthy of your time.
    I think a lot depends on what you would like to do, how much time you have to spare, and how much effort you're willing to put in.



    There may be people that recommend doing paid surveys, so if you do decide to investigate surveys make sure they're reputable companies. And you should NEVER have to pay to join a survey company or spend money on a product that promises you'll get rich by doing surveys. It's FREE to join any survey panel.



    There could also be opportunities in writing articles - especially if you enjoy writing or have some knowledge to share on a particular subject.



    And there is also affiliate marketing, where you can promote products online on behalf of the product supplier. Every time you make a sale, you get commission - and all you have to do is simply refer the buyer to the seller.



    I have heard of data entry, stuffing envelopes, etc. but only in bad terms - people sent money in to 'register' and then didn't hear anything back. Or did all the work only to be told it wasn't to a sufficient standard!



    I personally started with affiliate marketing earlier this year, after I was made redundant. It has vast money making potential and is exciting to be involved in. However, it requires a certain amount of time and effort.



    In pursuing any of the above methods, there are going to be potential scams - so tread carefully.



    What I would recommend from my own experience is as follows:



    Surveys - finding paid survey sites by myself as opposed to investing in a 'paid surveys' product. You don't have to pay to register on each survey company website so it's better if you can find them without paying someone to merely tell you what these sites are or how to 'play the system'. It really is straight forward. There's a small directory on this site which features what appear to be reliable survey companies - and it's completely free with no strings - so do NOT pay to sign up!:

    http://www.earn-extra-from-home.com/free



    Articles - there are article websites such as http://www.helium.com which offer financial rewards for articles that rank well in their in-house competitions, and they also have a marketplace where companies offer money for articles on particular subjects. Also, webmaster forums could be good places to go as a webmaster may be offering to pay you to write some content for their site.



    Affiliate marketing - there is a lot of information on the web about this - in fact, there's almost too much. I found it important to do a little research, make a decision, then stick with it and not get distracted.



    By doing the research (which in effect you're doing now!), you minimise the risk of getting scammed and you should end up purchasing a product that delivers. There's a couple of products mentioned on this site which I know to be genuine but it would be important to pick a product that suits you and your aims:

    http://www.earn-extra-from-home.com/top-



    There's another really good product that I'd recommend, which requires zero investment (apart from the intial purchase price) and you can even get a sneak preview of it to see what you think:

    http://www.earn-extra-from-home.com/potp

    The program uses FREE METHODS and people have earned 6 figues in less than 2 years.





    Of course, the above are just options I'm familiar with. There will be plenty of other ways you can work from home - maybe even as a virtual PA or something. But the best advice I can give is to do your best to make sure you don't get scammed. And quite often this means not spending any money up front - whether it is through registering with an agency or applying for data entry jobs etc.





    Good luck!





    PS There are also sites like Script Lance where people offer money for work - either computer stuff or article writing. Check it out here:

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    Answering this question correctly may change my life?

    I've alwaysed loved to draw, but I have a recent overpowering interest in photography. I also want to see how good I am at painting.



    (a bit of a long stretch) Am I right by saying that good courses to take in college would be art appreciation and art history? If there are others please tell me. What types of jobs can I get with an art background? Tell me and I will research them. My life is on the line here folks.Answering this question correctly may change my life?
    art appreciation is kind of a ';special ed'; class for non artists. I'd lean more towards art history (given the two). However, only studio classes will teach you the actual skills involved. If you like drawing/painting/photography, look up david hockney.Answering this question correctly may change my life?
    Interior design incorporates drawing and photography - do a little research and maybe a night class to see if it suits. Most classes would let you sit in to ascertain if this is what suits your needs.
    Art appreciation and art history will expand your knowledge of the subject. But you also need to take classes that will enhance your skills like an art class or a photography class.



    I have a friend who was in the same situation you're in. He now co-owns his own photography business in CA. To get to that point he interned at a lot of local photography businesses, even offering his services for free just to gain the experience. He entered all the contests he could and built a name for himself.



    Best of luck to you in your future. It's good to hear that you've found your passion at such an early age. Some people never find their passion.
    look into art therapy. you get paid well and you get to work with all types of media. you also get to learn beyond just the act of crating rt but into the act of understanding it through your eyes and the eyes of the artist. I am hoping to become an art therapist for just this reason. Good Luck!!!
    As a visual arts major and photographer, I would definatly encourage you to take art appreciation/art history, especially if you're looking to go into an art field.

    It's expanded my knowledge so much, and I've seen my photography work improve because of it.

    I'd also suggest you take at least 2D design if you are into drawing/painting. It will help with composistion and color balance, among other things.

    Good luck!
    Greetings:



    There was a time long ago when I was offered a position as the official artist for the Alaska State Department of Fish %26amp; Game. I turned it down because I felt there were more qualified than I to hold the position. {I was and still am totally self taught.} I went back to school and two of the first classes I took were quite literally, the History Of Art and Art Appreciation. I was disappointed. In fact, I was completely turned off by the whole college scene and left shortly after the first term ended. I honestly felt that I was learning faster by attending the school of hard knocks. Since then, I have taught my unique methods from coast to coast including Brigham Young University in Utah and Clemson University in South Carolina. I am a full time artist with collectors across North America and Europe with over 270 awards including 19 Best Of Show honors. I have also been the associate editor of an international art magazine, owned two newspapers, and was an instructor to a 2005 World Championships art competition. I have judged art competitions from local levels all the way up to and including World Championships....all without a college education. Do I think the two classes you mentioned were good for me? Probably not. But your own personal drive is more important for you to develop than any other trait or ability. Teach yourself to look and to see EVERYTHING around you. Let your environment be your teacher. There is MUCH to learn if you dare to look and truly see. No one can talk you into being a good artist. Likewise, if you truly have the desire, no one can talk you out of it either. Master self discipline, and you will master the art...whatever that art may be. Believe in yourself more than you believe in the value of any book or any teacher. And MOST importantly, do that which you love MOST. I have seen many good artists destroyed because a college professor talked them away from the subjects and styles they truly loved most. Go for it. I believe you CAN do it. ONLY you can decide if you will. Good luck. Dan

    How did your dog change your life?

    I don't know if this sounds crazy, but after I got my dog I think I became happier! And I'm not as lazy anymore, and I don't sit around all day anymore. I actually go out to the park! And I've become an animal lover.How did your dog change your life?
    My boy Cosmo gave me beautiful memories, memories that I would never have had, had I not been blessed with the absolute pleasure of his presence in my life.How did your dog change your life?
    my dog changed my life to the point where when i listed my priorities he was number one........................then my dad then my brothers then my friends
    I've always had dogs, so ... no change really.
    My dog(s) have showed me how important life is

    they have made me more active I lost 30 lbs from taking 1 mile jogs every other day (im now 127.8 lbs)

    they have improved my responcibility

    thay have helped me have more fun!
    well no name

    Animals usually have that affect on people.

    If I dont have an animal around me im MISERABLE!

    I hate school SOOO much but my teacher (on friday) Brought one of his dogs puppys and I melted and was SOOO happy I came to school.

    My dogs are amazing.

    And my cats.

    and hamster and fish%26lt;33

    I love them all:)
    i dont think they really changed my life (all four of them lol), they're just nice to have around. they make my mom really happy. i guess the change they have made is that i dont think i can ever go without a dog anymore! i couldnt imagine not having dogs anymore.
    I have always had dogs, but only started appreciating them about 7yrs ago, after my last dog died last year in July I went about 7 months not having a dog, But after getting my boy I just became happier, I have anxiety and as soon as I finally had a dog back in my life I was instantly happier and more relaxed, those months with out a dog, I was a wreck, my anxiety sky rocketed. and to be honest I am just once again a happy person, its something about dogs that calms me.
    My dogs helped me to get closer to my fiance! We got one German Shepherd dog and loved how much she brought us closer. We took her to the park together and she even slept in our bed with us - yes, we're those crazy dog people. And then we got our second dog, a Short-haired Pointer. Both were shelter dogs. He's made us more patient, more tuned to each others needs. We took them to obedience classes together, and I learned what a passion he had for sheltered animals and we volunteer together!
    When I adopted my first dog three months ago, I thought clean the poop, walk around the block, feed and clean the poop again. But it was not like that at all, the animal had a face, it had eyes. It had feelings. At night she would sleep with me and my fiance because she would not sleep on the floor like people tell me they should, and when we place her back on the floor she would give me this look as if to say please, let me, i am scared. and I would always give in. watching her grow is like watching a child grow. new toys would always bring joy to her, she would follow us wherever we would go and obey our boundaries. Now, 3 months later, i am a proud dog owner. we take her to the dog park as much as we can, and i am thinking about adopting another puppy and opening up a shelter, creating a dog run as much as I can do to give these creatures the lives they deserve.
    My dogs have always been like my family, and I don't think I ever really noticed a change....until now. Our family has gone through a lot and we decided that a little indoor dog would be nice to have around. Our other dogs are all big outdoor dogs. From the minute we got our Puggle puppy 3 weeks ago, it has touched each of our lives and brought us all closer together. The puppy is literally like our baby. We give it so much attention that we forget the other problems we had been worrying about. We are happier and feel so much love. I wish I could explain better what I mean. I guess you could just say he is the ray of sunshine that we all needed. We love him more than we had imagined we would and he loves us back just as much. We wouldn't trade him for anything.
    My dog -POPI- became like a member of the family for 9 years. He recently died and I cried alot. Its like loosing a family member. Now I have 2 rescued dogs 4 months old. Its not the same but I hope that through time they become as special as Popi. :)
    Congratulatons on your new life.

    That's what a pet can do for you- they give you a reason to get up in the morning, to go out into the world.

    They're such honest little beings- they don't bs you.

    The physical contact is also beneficial to both us and them. Lastly, as a female, I go hiking alone with my dog, which I wouldn't do without him. He's definitely a protector and I feel safest having him around. He goes everywhere with me.
    as a child I was not allowed animals. After getting married I got a cocker spaniel and he changed my life completely. He taught me how to be patient and caring. He taught me how to live in the moment and not dwell on the past. He taught me how to love unconditionally and how one action could have consequences that are far worse than the problem at hand. He taught me how to have empathy towards all and to always think before acting. This little dog was my first child and I will NEVER forget him. He made me a better person and now a GREAT mommy to my 2 legged kids.So to Sam, thank you and I will love you and think of you forever.
    I always loved and emotionally needed my dogs, but then I became sick when I was in the Army. I got spinal meningitis and survived, but it damaged by autonomic nervous system to the point that my heart no longer worked right. My dogs, who I loved, showed, coursed and otherwise worked with shocked me - they started taking care of ME.



    When my heart rate went wonky, they would run and get my hubbie or kids with or without being told. I could even tell them who to get by name. My kids even showed me they were smart enough to go to anyone they were introduced to by name on command. Even people they only met once.



    When I get dizzy trying to walk around so I do not turn into a complete lump, my dogs brace me on either side and let me lean on them until I get back to the house. I can lean on them like a cane or walker and they just help me more. If I have to give up and sit down, they run for help.



    When I am really bad, they signal there is a problem and lay on top of me so that I will not move until help comes. One gets the help, one lays on me.



    They will not leave me unattended. They even follow me into the bathroom and watch me there. One of my dogs siblings works with the elderly and kids in reading programs.



    My dog was bred to another special dog by my daughter who then donated the most responsive offspring (2 of the 10) to the Veterans Administration to give to a soldier and another was placed with another disabled woman. Others went to pet homes and to show homes. One pet home has the dog help rehab wild animals.



    My dogs have helped me still move around and live. My boy's children have helped a soldier and a woman reclaim their lives after terrible trauma and even succored injured wild animals.



    My life would suck majorly without the love and care of my attentive pups. Thanks to their care I am not bedbound and my family does not fear I will drop dead without their constant attendance. They know our dogs watch and keep me safe.



    BTW - they are still International Champions and are slowly getting points in the AKC (they do not get to travel to shows but must wait for them to come to us and must have a handler available - for obvious reasons). If my dogs even see me at ringside watching, they will try and break out of the show ring to get to me.



    I owe them not my life, but my quality of life. I would be lost without them. Some of their children have saved their people too.

    How do I change my life? I am 23 years old and am in a rut.?

    I seem to be going through the motions of life but not really enjoying it. Can anyone give me some advice on how to turn my life around and ';start over?';How do I change my life? I am 23 years old and am in a rut.?
    I think that if you're pretty well off, just get up and go. Get a new job that you love, kick out your boyfriend or whatever he is (if this applies to you), buy yourself a new outfit and just try to be new. Kick the old habits-smoking, overeating, drug use, etc. Get away to somewhere where no one knows where or when you're departing and rethink your life. No cell phone, no emails, no nothing. Just you. Rethink everything you've been doing and have done and see what needs to change. Good luck.How do I change my life? I am 23 years old and am in a rut.?
    Go on a white water river trip down the Colorado river
    Martial arts. or Getting in shape. If you not in shape this is a common thought. Get into shape and see how it changes
    vote for Obama!
    Taking a course or doing a degree gives you purpose and can change your future. I say education all the way!
    Go to the Himalayas once..:)they say its like a rebirth if u survive there..:)
    i think at times life is hard and we sometimes forget who we are. find yourself again remember all the good stuff about yourself and keep pushing forward.no matter what comes your way
    Pray about it. God can help you ';start over';.



    Good luck. I hope everything works out!!!! :)
    That happened to me about a year ago. I realized that it was time for me to go back to school and get a degree for a career that I'd like. Now, I've completed one-third of my associate's degree in Medical Assisting...and even though I'm constantly busy and still stuck in a job that I hate, I'm content in knowing that things will be better in a year (I'm graduating next June, if all goes well).



    My point is....you need goals in your life in order to keep going. If you already have your degree, why not focus on the next big step? Set a goal, achieve it, and focus on the next thing. Goal-setting will give your life a sense of purpose and make life much more enjoyable. The first goal is tough, but achieving it will feel amazing...which makes the next goals easier.



    You said you're 23. Where do you live? Why not try saving up for a house (or, if you're living with parents, save up to move out)? If you have a poorly-functioning car, why don't you focus on buying a new car within the next year? If you hate your job, why not focus on finding a new career?
    Self reflection

    -find out what about your life isn't making you feel happy

    -make mental notes of them when they happen and try and write them down

    -wake up each day thinking of something new/exciting you want to do that day

    -remember to stay completely in the moment and don't get caught up with past/future only present

    -all you need to ';start over'; is the willingness to do so

    -if you want to go somewhere go...but make sure when you return you don't go back to the same routine

    -you have the power to do whatever you want with your life-remember that.
    is there something you liked doing when you were younger that you stopped doing? a sport, a hobby...try picking it back up. if there are reasons you stopped it, examine those (not enough time, not in shape, money) and then fix those things and do what you used to love doing. good luck =)
    You change your life one step at a time. Start with small changes like what you eat and drink, add a new hobbie, join a gym. It's the little things that all add up to real change.